Horse Slaughter

The ruckus that has emerged from every horse lover I know over FB and all across the internet, equestrian blogs, etc., about lifiting the ban for horse slaughter in the US is quite something else.  What makes horses so different than cows or chickens is their iconic symbolism they have provided for us in our country's development.  People are outraged over the legalization of horse slaughter and I would like to explain my opinion.

I am a lifelong horse lover, I spend tens of thousands of dollars a year to ensure my horses' (and the horses who belong to my clients) health, well-being and safety.  I care for every need... every physical, emotional, nutritional, educational, medicinal, psychological need... you name it.  I am a horse owner, trainer, riding instructor, coach, farrier, groom and clinician, and I personally have rescued or taken in unwanted horses more than I have ever purchased a horse, and rehabilitated them or re-educated and then re-homed to good homes or kept them personally.  I have had everything from OTTBs to geriatric warmbloods to ponies to BLM Mustangs to grade horses of unknown history to horses who nobody else could do anything with.  And I have held the heads of some of those horses as they were euthanized due to founder or puncture wounds through the skull.  I know the heartache of losing a horse, I have shed countless amounts of tears over the agony of such losses.  And I work 24-7-365 to care for these horses in my care without paid vacation or health benefits.  I do this because I want to do this and because I love it. 

So lest you think I haven't a heart, think again.

Yet, I am in 100% support of the legalization of horse slaughter.  How can this be, you ask?

It saddens me to know that horses are getting slaughtered.  Indeed it does.  It saddens me to put myself in their shoes, to be unwanted, uncared for, treated without kindness and have my life ended by someone else's hands without a say-so.

I have encountered thousands of horses in my career.  And most of these horses have had happy stories and successful careers.  But I have also come across the gross and unforgettable neglected ones, the ones who couldn't walk or stand due to gross malnutrition or injury, who were out in a small dirt enclosure without clean water or any edible food whatsoever.  I was one of those persons who helped physically hold up, along with six other adults, this starving horse to walk him across the street to my barn.  He was across the street the whole time in the neighbors' back yard, starving to death, and we never knew until one day by chance we happened to see him at exactly the right time through the bushes.  He was beyond skin and bones and could barely stand or walk.  We physically held up this horse and helped him move, step by painfully slow step, across the road into our property where he was finally properly cared for.

And this sort of thing is everywhere.  You people who are in outrage over slaughter; have you ever driven by one of these situations and wanted to end the lives of these miserable horses yourself?  It changes you.  It makes you realize the necessity of giving people an option to eliminate their unwanted horses.  And no, you can't save them all yourself.

I for one have done my part, and will continue to do my part, for rescues.  But many of you who would willingly put your name on a anti-slaughter petition won't go to an auction and take a horse off the slaughter-bound truck yourself because YOU KNOW how much risk there is and how much money it will take to rehabilitate one.  And if you won't, who will? 

Horse rescues across the US are full.  Horse rescues (some, not all) are some of the worst with cases of neglect because they simply cant afford the cost of care!  This is what happens when the supply exceeds the demand.  And unlike cars or other objects, they can't just be stored in warehouses. Obviously there are other answers out there for helping to not increase supply.  However, this is also assuming that people should be responsible and reasonable, and we know that just isn't always the case. 

And for those of you who have done one rescue, can you do two?  Or three?  Any more and you run the risk of not being able to adequately care for the needs of your animals yourself.

The bottom line is that people need a means, an effective, legal means and a right to choose how to dispose of their animals.  Having a vet humanely euthanize a horse costs money.  I know.  There aren't many places where you can properly or effectively bury a horse.  I know.  Having a horses' carcass hauled away or incinerated costs money.  Again, I know.  And trust me, very few people who do love their horse and want a humane means to end a horses life wouldn't go out and put a bullet behind the ear themselves.  Again, I know this.  I held a horse late one night whose owner ended his life with a shotgun due to a injury that could not be healed.  It's not that I'm an extra-tough person; it's because I knew it was the right and humane thing to do regardless of how painful it was to experience.  We as responsible owners need to be prepared to make these tough decisions, and to help the people who might not be responsible to also make the right decision.  And people who already don't have money to care for this horse in their backyard certainly can't afford to go down the road of euthanasia or incineration.

Where there is a law or ban, there is a way around the law or ban.  Last year statistics were shown that just as many horses were sold in the US for slaughter; however, they were shipped across the borders to our neighbors.  I don't know about you but I would think that having access to horse slaughter locally would cut down on a lot of this inhumane business we're always hearing about, especially in the hauling/shipping process.  And Canada and Mexico don't have near the regulations that we have in the US as far as where "humane" treatment is concerned.  Think about it. 

So make it available for them to sell their horse for meat value and we now have people who might do the responsible thing instead of leaving a horse to slowly die out in the backyard.  But if we make it illegal for these people then we sure as heck won't have anybody being responsible out there. 

Legalizing slaughter still won't completely solve the neglect issue, but it will certainly help.  For we all know that there are just sick, sick people out there who cannot do right by their own families and children, or even another human being, let alone an animal, regardless of what is legal or illegal.

If horse meat is legalized in the US it will also cut costs down on care for other pets and animals, such as zoos and dog food.

I never plan on eating horse meat myself.  If I were truly starving at any point later in life I might consider it, but as it stands now, I choose not to.  Horses are too close to my heart.  However, I can't afford to rescue any more horses right now and I can't tolerate the gross neglect I have seen growing due to the economy and the lack of means of disposal.

So I vote YES to the legalization, bottom line!

Sick again!

JJ has left with Pop and Goey for Indiana for the entire month of December and are still en route.  They left early Sunday morning, soon after which I fell sick with the bug that everyone else has had and that I already had a few weeks ago, although this time it was far more brutal including a fever and pressure in my head so great it felt as if my ears were bleeding at times.  So I am inside alternating between sleeping, watching movies and posting items we want to sell on craigslist. What a life. 

We have a number of plans this month to get a lot done and try to pull ourselves out of this pit we find that we occasionally trip and fall into.  Mass household purging and organization is the name of the game.  I am also going to try to get some writing done and work on my dressage presentation for Feb. 

Thanks!

It's the day before Thanksgiving.  Joe and Macy are coming over early tomorrow morning, James and I will do chores and then leave for my sister's in Melbourne.  JJ is already over there with Goey and Pop.  Since he has been gone I have had the house quiet and to myself for the last two days and it has been a welcome break from all the craziness that is holidays.  Although we have the smallest house of all, we find that we can fit an incredible amount of people inside, who happily trip over each other on their way to and from and shove things around to make themselves comfortable.  It's amazing. 

I have this ability to push and push and push, but then when I find myself crashing, it comes on hard and fast.  Today was one of those days.  I wrestled with myself for a substantial amount of time about getting outside and getting some horses ridden, or, to sit inside and watch movies.  The movies almost won out, the TV was even on and ready to go, but I did end up getting Drama and Big Bird ridden today, with whom I had really good rides all the way around.  I finished chores with Eryn, and then came inside and watched movies.

I have a gigantic pot of leftover spaghetti that is calling my name.  And some eggnog.  And possibly more movies. 

Aching, breaking muscles

You know that time when you have so much to say, so very much to say indeed, but you feel as if nothing can come out in any form of logic or rationale whatsoever?  So you shun the computer and push away the keyboard because you simply cannot bring yourself to just start.  

Well I'm here, I'm starting.  Now for a break, need to go grab some iced peppermint green tea with honey.  Local honey.  Yum.  

... and after more interruptions of phone calls and other insanity, we are back.  Goodness.  Even the serene and beautiful solo piano music in the background is having a hard time calming my overly stressed spirit tonight. 

I have been teetering on the edge of complete and total shutdown, back and forth, for quite a few days now.  Thoughts of spending the rest of our savings on renting a one-way u-haul, packing up what little we have of the house that we actually want to keep, packing up our family and all the four-leggeds and just driving... and wherever we run out of gas or money or food whichever comes soonest, is the place we stay. Just a complete and total start-over, anew. Haha. What ridiculousness, I know, but at some point even that level of desperation sounds attractive in comparison to what I feel I have been going though lately. Good thing we don't actually have the money to really do that, because in my time of quietness, I know it would not be the right thing, so once again, God is good and knows how to keep us within the "aids". 

The list is very long of things that are stressing me and none of them are really worth getting into, because regardless of the exact circumstances in my life, we all know the feeling when you get to the point where you say, there is one thing, one last thing that simply cannot happen, and if that one thing happens, I am absolutely going to QUIT IT ALL!  And yet how very scary it is that that one thing could actually happen. 

I was unable to find peace in my spirit for several days in a row.  I found myself on the edge of pure rage over things that should never incite my rage.  But I was there.  Right there.  I knew it, but I could do nothing to find peace.  I found myself believing the subtle lies... "*I* should NEVER have to put up with this.  *I* am SO ABOVE having to deal with this.  *I* am SO TIRED of bending over and taking it up the behind for other people's lack of (-whatever-) and I FINALLY GOING TO STAND UP FOR MYSELF AND LET THE WORLD KNOW THAT I. AM. DONE. WITH BEING TREATED LIKE LIKE THIS!!"

Yet the Spirit would bring me back and tell me to stay.  Stay.  Stay in the pressure and not to escape.  He wouldn't say why.  He wouldn't give a reason.  He would just say, stay.  And for that brief moment I would say, yes Lord, I will stay.  And about 30 minutes later something else would happen and I would find myself choking back the rage that about to spew forth from my mouth in a violent display of self preservation because once again I would lose sight of what was actually happening. 

I was in pain, yes, oh, so much pain.  My physical muscles were to the point of exhaustion, but my spiritual muscles were in pure agony.  And it would seem to anyone standing by that if I did blow up and finally let those circumstances and those people HAVE IT, that I would have been beyond fully justified.  How could ANYONE be expected to take all this pressure and submit to it with humility?  It was beyond reasonable expectation. 

But yes, those were more lies.  And again I would say to the Spirit, I submit my will to you.  And responding in humility is always the right answer. 

And this is why you need to develop your ability to hear the Spirit talking.  Because he does not talk loud and he does not prevent you from making the wrong choice.  He talks quietly, softly, and when you are this close to breaking out in rage, he is hard to hear.  And even harder to believe that what he says to do is the right way to respond. 

My horses even knew my heart was in turbulence, because they each responded to me accordingly.  Sammy disconnected.  Big Bird became fractious.  The kids at the barn stayed out my way.  I realized I could not ride until I found peace because no matter how trained my physical body was, it could not fool them for my tumultuous emotions were speaking far too loudly. 

When I rode Drama one evening, I knew nothing was really going to get accomplished but he needed the exercise, so while I sat on his back and walked around the arena, with the dusk settling in and nobody around, I cried.  I just cried.  And I let out everything that was on my heart.  From the loss of my two precious babies (of which I am reminded that I would have been 8 months pregnant with baby 3 this month) to the hopeless situation that is our finances and our future of having a place of our own. 

However, it was during my ride on Big Bird that I began to put the pieces together to see a glimpse of the bigger picture.  God spoke to me using the picture I have always been able to understand and receive, from the back of a horse, an analogy perfectly painted for me. 

I have watched BB struggle to let loose of his anxiety and pride, to trust me as his rider, and have watched him grow and develop as I have been able to cultivate his ability to respond to aids and boundaries.  As his rider I want to control more of his body to empower him to use himself in a way he doesn't yet fully realize or understand.  While at some point in his life he may have gloried in his strength and speed and ability to hold his own in a world of racehorses, he now feels as if he is losing himself and all his past to a future that is confusing, frightening and unknown.  Yet I desire to bring him more peace and empowerment than he ever thought possible with a new career.  And in doing so I place pressure appropriate for his ability, a little more each time.  But at each new stage with new pressures and new confinements he cries out and reacts in ways to let me know that he is uncomfortable and doesn't understand.  Did he not do enough before?  Has he not shown himself to be smart, capable, talented?  What is all this new pressure about?  How much more can I really expect of him?  When is enough, enough? 

And yet how little does he know that what I have with him now is only a drop in the bucket to what I have hopes for in the future.

And these are exactly the words my heart is crying out to the Lord.  When is enough, enough?  Have I not shown you, Lord, to be faithful, obedient?  Have I not proven myself in the past to submit to you, even when it is hard, and have I not seen your release?  Where is your release this time?

My releases on BB were quick and easily given at first.  They were for simple things.  Now things are more difficult, more complex.  And the release is not given as quickly because instead of one step, I want three.  And then after three I would like five, and so forth.  It is hard work and I admire him, even in his struggle, how much he is trying to learn how to keep searching for the release and to stay within the pressure.  

Jesus is cultivating more of me, utilizing more of me, and that is why the tremendous pressure.  That is why I feel as if I am being surrounded by rocks and hard places everywhere I turn, and that is why I feel my rage come to a head so easily because I am being squeeeezzzzeeeeedd...... but like I don't want BB to burst and say I QUIT, I want him to submit with more intensity, more diligence, more energy... because I want more of his body, soul and spirit captivated with my plan, just as the Lord wants me to be with Him.  When the pressure is on, I give more deeply, yes, stretching those spiritual ligaments and muscles right to the point of breaking and back again.  Because I have asked him to do something wondrous with my life.  And even though at the time it may seem as if certain "people" "problems" or "cirumstances" are the issue, they are only the unique ways God is using to develop me. And I have to keep my eyes on that. 

Here I am, Lord.  Use me.   I choose not to quit and I purpose to take this unbelieveable amount of pressure from every angle I find myself in, as opportunities to say YES to you with more passion, energy, and dilligence. 

Peace.  Amidst the pressure.  Within the pain. 

Peace. 

Sickness

JJ has been sick the last three days; he never got a fever and it didn't really knock him down but he has a wet cough and is as stuffed up as can be.  Because of that his breathing has sounded more like a chainsaw motor during the night, which makes it a little hard to sleep.  One night I had to go out to the sofa because he was so loud, I literally could not drown him out enough to fall asleep.  And then last night even though it was a bit better, he went to bed late, I went to bed even later, and he woke up early, way too early, so I told him to lay back down and close his eyes.  So he wiggled and squirmed for a LOT longer before he fell back asleep, so being as dog tired and still sick as I was, it made me quite cranky.  A couple of times he reached over and kissed me, so even though my body was screaming at me how much more sleep I needed, my heart felt warm and fuzzy.  So we snuggled until he fell back alseep again and when I awoke later, I did not feel quite as bad. 

Since I had not been able to sleep until about 1:30am, I worked on the computer some, and put together a list of upcoming shows from all the different organizations we have shown with before.  It got me going a little crazy looking at all the opportunities we have ahead of us.  I also realized that I practically need another part-time job just to pay for entry fees, memberships and stall fees when I start getting involved in competition again for myself.  The FL Horse Park in Ocala has some 3-phase schooling shows that I am particularly excited about for Sammy.  

I rode BB first, he has had the last four days off, which does him no good.  I am convinced more and more that he doesn't need, or want, any time off.  So my new experiment is to ride him 7 days a week until I can detect that he'd like a day off.  I can always tell when the other horses are asking for time, but not him!  And today we really had a good ride.  We didn't ride for long, but he was being pretty relaxed at the trot and was in a good state of mind, so I asked for the canter first on the right lead, which he responded to promptly, and we cantered several very large circles with a great amount of relaxation, a soft rein, and a lot of good energy!  He made me smile because I haven't really had a on-purpose canter that was this good before.  Gosh I love that horse.  I then tried for the left lead but didn't get it in the first two attempts, and not desiring to make a issue over the lead, wanting him just to enjoy a controlled canter which I already got, we ended and went back to the barn for a bath.  He is so fun!

The girls had a lesson next, Magdalene looked really, really good with Gallery today.  She was very round and engaged, her canter was very nice quality, you could see her using a lot of strength from her behind and back that has not yet been there.  And with that came a more consistent willingness to drop a little more deeply into the bit.  It really looked great. 

Ansley and Starbucks still working on canter departs and correct leads.  Starbucks gets them right when Ansley makes him bend correctly prior to depart, but when she doesn't, he just throws out guesses as to which lead he thinks she wants.  His sidepassing is looking good.  He doesn't always get his fore and hind ends moving together at the same time, but every once and a while they come together and he can take a few steps with absolute coordination. 

With Drama we worked on a consistent walk, with consistent contact on the bit.  He is more hollow at the walk because it's easier for him to be than the trot.  I think that is probably true for most horses, anyhow.  But his trot work was good and his leg yeilds were really good. 

Kendall had her lesson on Abbey tonight, her first time cantering on her own, off the longe.  She was really scared to canter for the first time, I spent weeks and weeks, probably months, prepping her, and last week was the first time she cantered on the longe... as soon as Abbey picked up the canter, Kendall pretty much threw herself off.  I have seen kids sabotage themselves before but this was pretty funny.  We ended up successfully cantering after I picked her up and put her back on... and then after that she grew exponentially in confidence to the point where she did her all by herself today with a huge smile.  She is such a cute kid. 

James took JJ out to buy a wireless router tonight, I had some time alone for a while.  Nice. 

Self-Preservation

This is the time change I love.  When I wake up in the morning with that extra hour of sleep, even though the clock will say it's only 9am I feel as if it's a whole lot later, which makes me happy that I feel so rested and that it's still so early in the morning.  And then because it gets darker earlier, everything going on outside has to be wrapped up sooner, and when I come inside feeling like it's really late, I look at the clock and rejoice that I have the whole evening ahead of me. 

When JJ crawled in bed with me this morning to snuggle, I said, "Hi sweet boy."  He replied with a knowing sigh, "I am."  So then he got tickle tortured instead of snuggles.

I started off the morning with Drama.  Magdalene had worked him a little bit last night for me because my legs were shot after having ridden BB and Sammy, she just essentially exercised him and let him do his stretches, but even with that I could tell that he wasn't starting off fresh and stiff from a whole weekend off, in other words, he felt ready to go, his muscles were there, his framework was ready to go.  We went over first and checked out the new fence that is going up on the East side of the arena.  Because when he's fresh and not yet in the "zone" with you, he can be a spook, so we check out our surroundings when they've changed where possible.  It helps.  He was satisfied nothing was going to jump out and get him so then we went right to work with stretching the topline.  After nearly three weeks of constant work, I can finally start to feel that his body is loosening and becoming more supple, instead of being that tight and contracted horse that his summer off due to injury left him.  Which helps then when I put him to work in his working gaits, I actually have consistent contact with his mouth.  Lateral work does the best.  After I've put him through an exercise of leg-yeilds, his haunches have come forward, his back comes up and his mouth comes down well into my hands and wishes to stay there.  Because I had him so solidly inside of all my aids, I asked him for a medium trot and he lengthened nicely as he powered forward for several strides.  It really encouraged me to see this developing in him; lengthening is NOT his strength.

Sammy was absolutely a charm yesterday; he worked hard and was mentally "there" and we stayed communicating the entire time, through the easy things and even still  through the more difficult things.  Today, on the contrary, I felt he didn't ever show up for work.  He wasn't spooked by the new fence and the guys who were putting it up or anything, but during our ride they were packing up to leave and they were driving trucks around the arena as they exited the gate, so he was always aware of their presence.  It was a distraction and he wasn't willing to let it go.  Also, the cows were moving up towards the arena, so he had his eye on them and their whereabouts as well, and then when the trucks left, the cows came up into the arena to check out the fence.  He was also keenly aware of their every move.  So this is the ride where the lights are on, but nobody was home, because his focus was elsewhere.  Finally after tying to work around it for too long, I parked Sammy and yelled at the cows to scoot on out, with the help of Tipper and her herding expertise.  Once the arena was clear and we were all by ourselves, I finally got a little of something from him.  He never does anything "wrong" when he's distracted, he doesn't prance, jig, spook, stop or anything like that, he just stonewalls me from affecting him in any way.  He wears a hollow frame just in case he wants a quick exit, and keeps the corner of his eye on whatever he wants to keep in his sights and doesn't drop his nose down onto contact; there is no bend and his back is nowhere to be found, making his strides short.  Everything about his body, frame and stride shout self-preservation.  And this is precisely the moment when I ask myself, do I power through it or clear the arena and try to reset the scene.  I chose to reset today.  And I got a little work from him at the end, however, nothing near what I got yesterday.  We got a few fantastic shoulder-ins, a lot of good engagement from the hindquarters.  I didn't do any canter work though, I knew that was going to be a road I didn't want to go down today. 


I gleaned a little nugget into Sammy's psyche this weekend from coach Karen.  I was helping her to warm-up her mare, Pixie, a little, petite TB.  I've only ever seen Pixie ridden by Magdalene during one of her IEA lessons and have heard a few things here and there through the grapevine about this horse.  When I got on her to warm up and to have her go over some crossrails, Karen told me she likes a lot of leg, and she doesn't like traffic coming at her face.  We were in a very crowded arena with everyone going here and there and everywhere, so it was really hard to keep her out of traffic.  Me and my dressage arena are pretty much empty... I've not been accustomed to for some time having to vie for rail space.  So when I thought "traffic", I thought to myself just not to try to thread the needle or something between two oncoming horses.  Turns out this meant any horse coming at her, even if we were 15 feet apart.  So the first time I had her pass a horse, to the inside of this horse, she did a sudden veer towards the inside of the arena and left me hanging over her outside shoulder for a moment.  So then, lesson learned, I kept her as best as I could from any head-on traffic.  Then a younger rider with obvious lack of arena etiquette came cantering down a line of fences and decided to pull a u-turn right behind Pixie's butt... I didn't see her coming when Pixie launched into a buck and I heard the girl exclaim, "sorry!" I made another mental note that rear traffic wasn't exactly welcome, either.

"Pixie"
James Lane Photography

To make a long story short, coach Karen said in passing that Pixie was "self-preserving", which is what made her an excellent event horse.  I literally dwelt on that statement all weekend because, to me, it seems like "self preserving" and "excellent event horse" was an oxymoron.  This mare and my Sammy have that same keen sense of self-preservation.  Sammy exemplifies it in other ways.  For some reason it was just easier for me to see with her. 


Pixie didn't know me and I certainly didn't know her and she communicated to me as clearly as she could that she needed to a have generous amount of room around her in order for her to feel safe and quiet in this warm-up arena. The second time I rode her for warm-up, I watched around me like a hawk and when horse ahead was approaching me on the rail, I checked my "rearview mirrors" first, and then turned her well to the inside of the arena until we had clear airspace back on the rail again.  This second ride was much different, she knew I was watching out for her and she completely relaxed.

So as I have mulled this over and over in my head, I started to see where my approach with Sammy, ie "If I say it's good enough for you to be here, it is, so suck it up and deal with it!" obviously is not helping comfort him.  Although I have never beaten him or roughly handled him in any way, I certainly think somebody has in his way-past, and he is reminded of that during my strong leg aid or rein aid during a moment of correction.  I don't like it when I ride past another horse head-on, and he veers to the side.  I want the horse to be so focused on my aids that there simply isn't another horse passing.

Drama is that way.  I could literally run Drama through a fence or over the edge of a cliff because he becomes so engaged in the little things he just simply doesn't look around. He's a very secure horse with his rider.  But also on the flip side, Drama just is a terrible (as in, not a natural) jumper, he second-guesses himself and then second-guesses his second-guessing.  And when the rider isn't right there telling him which distance to take and how to take it, he takes a wild stab in the dark (which is different every time) and I swear if he jumped things that were solid objects he'd kill himself.


Now that I'm connecting the dots here, I remember trail riding years ago, the difference between him and Blazer, I used to tell this story many times and had nearly forgotten it until now.  We'd be along on a trail, just chilling, and there would be a puddle ahead that would take up 9/10ths of the width of the trail.  From as far back as we could see it, Blazer was already communicating to me, "There's a puddle up ahead.  Just so you know."  I would respond, "I know" and continue riding.  When we'd get a little closer, he'd start it up again, "So, this puddle.  You do see it, right?  Just so you know."  I'd reply, "I know" and we'd keep going.  Then when we'd get right up to this puddle, the conversation would continue, "We're here at this puddle.  Would you like me to go through the puddle or around to the side?"


And it wouldn't matter where or how I asked Blazer to navigate the puddle, he was fine with it, but we just had to go through this whole process of communicating about it from as far back as could be seen.  It wasn't a good or bad thing, it just was the way it was, he liked to have all this communication/conversation going on the whole time.


Then the next day I took out Drama, same trail, same puddle, he was very young at this time.  We'd be chilling, going along, he was practically on auto-pilot as he moseyed along, and I could see this puddle up ahead.  First time encounter, same as with Blazer.  He did not notice the puddle.  We got closer, still no response from Drama, he was just cruising.  We came right up to the puddle and only when he actually stepped in it, tripped and nearly fell on his face did he acknowledge that the puddle existed.  It was like he woke up and exclaimed, "Oh look!  It's a puddle!"


And nothing has changed about his personality to this day.  He is completely secure and relaxed when someone else is in control, he is very trusting, almost overly-so.  However, just because he's trusting, doesn't make him a simple or straightforward plod.  The horse is fascinatingly complex, and he does notice a thousand things at once, which is why he's hard to ride, because he's hard to completely capture.  He's like water, and needs all this precisely engineered framework to contain it.  When you (as the rider) spring a leak in that framework, he all comes gushing out.  I compare him often to the complexity of driving a Formula One car. 


Sammy could not be more opposite.  Sammy doesn't necessarily trust you, he just allows you to be on his back.  If you ask for something reasonable, he doesn't necessarily mind giving it to you.  But if you start barking orders, making demands, or in general doing all the talking and no listening, you can just forget it.  And while he's trained to the point where he knows he can't misbehave, he settles with the stonewall approach.  So you end up with... nothing, hence, the-lights-are-on-but-no-one-answers-the-door kind of thing.


So, all this information is overwhelming my system as I try to process it into what it actually looks like to work with him.  And I mean to talk to Karen at a later time to have her explain more in depth what she meant and how that works. 


Moving on, my last ride was Big Bird, who was quite relaxed for most of the time.  We leg-yeilded a little here and there on the circle.  There was something that startled him in one of the corners of the arena and he shot forwards and to the inside, so I used an inside rein to bring him back to earth and circled around to that same spot again.  He startled again and did the very same thing, I exclaimed, "You whippersnapper!" before I could catch myself... it just came out.  I must be getting old.


As Magdalene rode Gallery tonight, we have been teaching her the shoulder-in, which she is just barely beginning to comprehend the concept that the haunches begin to push and carry instead of just trail somewhere behind.  As Magdalene began to ask for engagement from those baby hindquarters of hers, you could see the dispute happening up at Gallery's face as she tried to throw out her nose and pop up into the canter.  Magdalene said, "She thinks I want her to canter."  So I reminded her that as long as she knows she is not giving the aids for the canter, Gallery's job is to listen to the aids that she knows and to consistently respond to them.  If the inside leg meant bend, it still means bend, so dropping her shoulder in and throwing up her nose isn't the right answer.  So go back to reestablishing that the inside leg means bend.


Ansley has some of the same problem with Starbucks, but with going up into the canter, he loves to counter-bend and trot-trot-trot-trottrottrot into it instead of a crisp depart.  Same thing with the inside leg.  If it meant bend back in the trot, and it means bend at the canter, it means stay bent through the transition. 


And Kendle, poor Kendle.  Abbey has been feeling a little too much of her oats lately and after once or twice of a kid falling off purely on accident, she has now taken to the idea that she can quicken the process and just dump the kid and run off.  So at precisely the moment Kendle asked for the trot, Abbey bolts forwards and leaves the arena, Kendle stayed on until they turned the corner up at the barn.  I took Abbey back out and longed her, she was really worked up until she realized that she really wasn't in trouble, just more along the lines that she needed to work until she was settled and back to her steady self, once that was accomplished I took her back to the barn.  Kendle rode her for a few more minutes while I led her around the barn, and then I told her later I would plan on longeing Abbey in the future first and then keep Abbey on the longe until we got the rest of the arena fence put up.

Cool weather.  It turns completely steady school horses into Preakness wannabes.  Sigh, can I please have summer back now?


Lastly, my evening still not yet over, I drive over to the Weiss' to trim Luna.  It was dark and we worked by flashlight, but got the job done.  My first time trimming her since I learned the new trim from the AANHCP certified practitioner, I can definitely see how it will work.  I am loving the progress it is making on all of mine.

Eyes are always watching

Ashlee spent the night over so this morning she could help with barn chores and then ride with me to the IEA show in Sumpter.  It got really cold again, down to 47 so we had to blanket.  We woke up around 8am to get the chores rolling, and then left for the show grounds at 10.  On the way up there we stopped at Starbucks for coffee, a Walmart for a big needle and some fishing line to repair Sammy's leg strap on his blanket that ripped overnight, and then a Chick-Fil-A for lunch, picking up some food also for Rhonda and Magdalene who were already there.

I am still in almost awe with the way Magdalene's IEA coach, Karen Sykes, promotes such good camaraderie and healthy sportsmanship and values in her students.  It's not that my barn and students are lacking in that department, either, because my kids are simply some of the best when it comes to personal values and ethics even in the face of criticism or adversity, and that's not just my completely biased opinion either.  But rarely, and I mean rarely, do I see it elsewhere.  I see all the other things I wish I never had to see, and then what's worse, the parents or instructor/coaches encouraging it with their own personal irresponsibility.  But coach Karen, she's a complete gem and I ever have a barn big enough to invite her to come and stay, I will. 

So watching the events around the show today really made me dwell on the absolute need there is for adults with values to be passing these values along to the next generation.  It's not about chasing the almighty blue ribbon while demoralizing or mocking another competitor.  It's about the success of hard work, perseverance, the willingness to learn and benefit from these opportunities we have with horses.  I think competition is great, having someone judge you on your performance or skills keeps you digging deeper for that inner excellence that you might never have known was there.  But when it comes down to expecting to win and taking sickeningly irresponsible measures to ensure that the blue ribbon is within your grasp... no, thanks.

And I am super proud of my kids.  I can not say enough about how much I admire them taking the harder road, the road that doesn't always come with a fanfare or a parade, but that they choose to deepen and develop themselves in the quiet, the lonely and the difficult ways.  And if you ever doubt that that is the road worth taking, I pray that God will clearly show you the demise of the wicked who trample upon others to get what they think they want. They won't stand forever, they will fall.

Magdalene did very well, placing first in her flat class and I think 5th in her over fences class, which was also a very large class.  Very consistent and she is utilizing her training more and more.

Ashlee and I left around 5 to get home and finish up some chores, also hoping to ride before dark.  However, once getting to the barn I really was starting to feel fatigued and decided against riding.  Ashlee, however, rode Sammy and Ansley who was also there rode Starbucks; Ashlee reported the best ride she's *ever* had on Sammy, cantering several circles with good control and only light contact.  I am glad to see them doing better, and hopefully my riding him more consistently is helping him to offer her more support as he does his job with more finesse and understanding.

So, now I am waiting on my husband to bring home chinese food.  I am pert near famished.